Major Milestones
Well…It is official. Our oldest can tie his shoes all by himself:-)
Jackson turned 6 in August and it was a “clue” to me that life as I had know it with him was shifting. He wanted his own shoes and wanted to have “big boy” lace up shoes. Thank goodness I had him with me when I was buying his birthday present so I could check for the right size. I showed him what I had thought he wanted and he gave me this disappointed look, like I had picked out baby booties or something. Instead, He wanted these “cool kicks” shown above. I acquiesced on the premise that he would learn to tie them himself, to which he agreed.
Well, He has had steps 1, 2 and 3 down for ever but the last step has been eluding him/frustrating him to no end. I never made a big deal about it. He just got as far as he could and then I finished up for him. I noticed in the last 2 weeks or so, his fine motor skills have progressed rapidly. The big clue has been his writing. He just can do it now without a problem.
So today we went over the ”tying procedure” again. We figured out the problem and within precisely 1 minute and 26 seconds he was tying his shoes as if he had done it his whole life. I wish I had the video camera going, but I didn’t think it would happen that fast. His little happy dance at the end was too cute. I would of shown it to his wife one day if I had it on film.
So tying shoes has been like every other thing. Potty training, riding bikes, swimming, reading….if I just wait until he is ready and try not to push it too early, he does it in like nano seconds.
OK - I am going to go shed a happy tear.
